Here is a list of parenting books recommended by members of Hacker’s News community. All links are affiliate links to purchase these books from Amazon:
One of a few books that are recommended multiple times in this thread. 4.5 stars with 1000+ reviews.
Cribsheet: A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, from Birth to Preschool by Emily Oster
Another book that was recommended by multiple people.